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Army Vet returns home to care for aging mom. Creates podcast Helping.Mom to help caregivers care for aging parents.

In 2023 Terry closed his successful restaurant in Texas to care for elderly mom back on their family farm in Indiana. What happened next, no one could have predicted. In this podcast Terry gives straight advice and heartfelt encouragement to fellow caregivers to love & serve their parents. You can also download his book \"Beginnings\" from Amazon. Terry is a disabled Army Veteran with 4 university degrees, proud dad to 5 daughters, who completed Harvard University Faith & Leadership program. His career includes Soldier, attorney, missionary, university professor, championship basketball coach, and Fortune 500. His restaurant was 2-X Best of Region.

Terry is now FT medical guardian to his mom, and Veteran-owner of nonprofit PatriotPups.org, where he hand-raises AKC White German Shepherd puppies for military vets & other great families across USA. Please visit PatriotPups.org

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There are 3 phases, or stages, that care RECEIVERS go through:

I dont need you--I got this

I dont want you--you dont do anything right

I demand you-why arent you?

(maybe a 4th: I cant have you)

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There are 3 phases, or stages, that care RECEIVERS go through:

I dont need you--I got this

I dont want you--you dont do anything right

I demand you-why arent you?

(maybe a 4th: I cant have you)